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Here are the 8 tools for recovery in Overeaters Anonymous
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A Plan of Eating
As a tool, a plan of eating helps us to abstain from eating
compulsively. Having a personal plan of eating guides us in our
dietary decisions, as well as defines what, when, how, where and
why we eat. It is our experience that sharing this plan with a
sponsor or another OA member is important.
There are no specific requirements for a
plan of eating; OA does not endorse or recommend any specific
plan of eating, nor does it exclude the personal use of one.
(See the pamphlets
Dignity of Choice and
A Plan of Eating for more information.) For specific dietary
or nutritional guidance, OA suggests consulting a qualified
health care professional, such as a physician or dietician. Each
of us develops a personal plan of eating based on an honest
appraisal of his or her own past experience; we also have come
to identify our current individual needs, as well as those
things which we should avoid.
Although individual plans of eating
are as varied as our members, most OA members agree that some
plan — no matter how flexible or structured — is necessary.
This tool helps us deal with the
physical aspects of our disease and helps us achieve physical
recovery. From this vantage point, we can more effectively
follow OA's Twelve-Step program of recovery and move beyond the
food to a happier, healthier and more spiritual living
experience.
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Sponsorship
Sponsors are OA members who are living the
Twelve Steps
and Twelve
Traditions to the best of their ability. They are willing to
share their recovery with other members of the Fellowship and
are committed to abstinence.
We ask a sponsor to help us through
our program of recovery on all three levels: physical, emotional
and spiritual. By working with other members of OA and sharing
their experience, strength and hope, sponsors continually renew
and reaffirm their own recovery. Sponsors share their program up
to the level of their own experience.
Ours is a program of attraction: find
a sponsor who has what you want, and ask that person how he or
she is achieving it. A member may work with more than one
sponsor and may change sponsors at will.
Meetings
Meetings are gatherings of two or
more compulsive overeaters who come together to share their
personal experience, and the strength and hope OA has given
them. Though there are many types of meetings, fellowship with
other compulsive overeaters is the basis of them all. Meetings
give us an opportunity to identify and confirm our common
problem and to share the gifts we receive through this program.
Telephone
The telephone helps us share
one-to-one and avoid the isolation which is so common among us.
Many members call other OA members and their own sponsors daily.
As a part of the surrender process, it is a tool with which we
learn to reach out, ask for help and extend help to others. The
telephone also provides an immediate outlet for those
hard-to-handle highs and lows we may experience.
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Writing
In addition to writing our
inventories and the list of people we have harmed, most of
us have found that writing has been an indispensable tool for
working the Steps. Further, putting our thoughts and feelings
down on paper, or describing a troubling incident, helps us to
better understand our actions and reactions in a way that is
often not revealed to us by simply thinking or talking about
them. In the past, compulsive eating was our most common
reaction to life. When we put our difficulties down on paper, it
becomes easier to see situations more clearly and perhaps better
discern any necessary action.
Literature
We study and read OA-approved
pamphlets; OA-approved books, such as
Overeaters Anonymous, Second Edition,
The Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions of Overeaters Anonymous
and
For Today; and we read
Lifeline,
our monthly magazine on recovery. We also study the book
Alcoholics Anonymous, referred to as the "Big Book,"
to understand and reinforce our program. Many OA members find
that when read daily, the literature further reinforces how to
live the Twelve Steps. Our OA
literature
and the AA "Big Book" are ever-available tools which provide
insight into our problem of eating compulsively, strength to
deal with it, and the very real hope that there is a solution
for us.
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Anonymity
Anonymity, referred to in
Traditions
Eleven and Twelve, is a tool that guarantees that we will
place principles before personalities. The protection anonymity
provides offers each of us freedom of expression and safeguards
us from gossip.
Anonymity assures us that only we, as individual OA members,
have the right to make our membership known within our
community. Anonymity at the level of press, radio, films and
television means that we never allow our faces or last names to
be used once we identify ourselves as OA members. This protects
both the individual and the Fellowship.
Within the Fellowship, anonymity
means that whatever we share with another OA member will be held
in respect and confidence. What we hear at meetings should
remain there. However, anonymity must not be used to limit our
effectiveness within the Fellowship. It is not a break of
anonymity to use our full names within our group or OA service
bodies. Also, it is not a break of anonymity to enlist
Twelfth-Step help for group members in trouble, provided we
refrain from discussing specific personal information.
Another aspect of anonymity is that
we are all equal in the Fellowship, whether we are newcomers or
seasoned long-timers. And our outside status makes no difference
in OA; we have no stars or VIPs. We come together simply as
compulsive overeaters.
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Service
Carrying the message to the
compulsive overeater who still suffers is the basic purpose of
our Fellowship; therefore, it is the most fundamental form of
service. Any form of service—no matter how small—which helps
reach a fellow sufferer adds to the quality of our own recovery.
Getting to meetings, putting away chairs, putting out
literature, talking to newcomers, doing whatever needs to be
done in a group or for OA as a whole are ways in which we give
back what we have so generously been given. We are encouraged to
do what we can when we can. "A life of sane and happy
usefulness" is what we are promised as the result of working the
Twelve Steps. Service helps to fulfill that promise.
As OA's responsibility pledge states:
"Always to extend the hand and heart of OA to all who share my
compulsion; for this I am responsible."
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